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Ditch The Rudeness


If you lose your temper with the waiter at your next business lunch, you also may lose a prospective client, a new survey suggests.

Half of advertising and marketing executives polled said being impolite to the wait staff is the single biggest blunder a professional can make during a lunch meeting. Showing up late ranked second.

The survey was developed by The Creative Group, a specialized staffing service.

"Displaying poor manners when interacting with the wait staff -- or anyone -- during a business meeting will prompt prospective clients and business partners to question whether they and their staff members will be treated the same," says Tracey Turner, executive director of The Creative Group. "Showing up late is a similar sign of disrespect."

Survey participants said displaying poor table manners and dressing too casually also ranked as top unprofessional blunders.

Rudeness isn't confined to lunches. In 2002, the nonprofit organization Public Agenda conducted a survey called "Aggravating Circumstances: A Status Report on Rudeness in America." Unfortunately, businesses got reamed for rudeness toward customers.

A whopping 81 percent of survey respondents said too many stores force customers to wait for service. A full 77 percent said that is was common for sales people to act like “the customer is not even there.”

What You Can Do


Mind your P’s & Q’s. Whether you’re courting a prospective client or interacting with customers, using tiptop business etiquette can make you shine. Here are some tips:

  • If you’re new to being a business owner, polish your social skills. Take a seminar or workshop to brush up on etiquette. You’ll gain confidence as you learn how to professionally handle introductions, table manners, small talk and other pleasantries.

  • Train your employees. Be specific about what constitutes politeness and how that translates into customer service. Teach employees how to properly greet customers—on the floor and on the phone.

  • Be punctual. It conveys respect. Return phone calls on time. Answer e-mails promptly. Arrive 10 minutes early for business meetings or lunches.

  • Just because you work at home in your favorite faded jeans doesn’t mean they’re appropriate attire for the next chamber of commerce meeting. You can dress casually yet look professional—and command respect for doing so.

  • Get more training on business etiquette. Check out the free Success Skill Seminar “Mind Your Manners”.

    Topics include:

    • Put Your Best Foot Forward

    • Reclaim The Business Lunch

    • Can We Talk?

    • Electronic Etiquette

    • Networking Social Graces

    • Dress for Success or Comfort?

    • International Etiquette


 
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